Mom passed, havent been around much, in my feels as they say.

[LineSkiCat14]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important. Im so glad we got to spend time with her, especially her and her granddaughter.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

 

[true-blue1]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Prayers for you and your family!

 

[4Frusciante#]

Really sorry to hear that. I know from experience how tough it is...just hang in there and remember you're not the only one hurting.

 

[Skyguyb27]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Damn Bro, my heart goes out to you. My mom and my girls are all I have left as far as blood goes. Losing any of them would devastate me. I feel for you. I can’t make it better for you but know my heart goes out to you and you’re not alone. Come online anytime we are always here.

 

[coalBucket]

My dad passed away July 4th after spending a week at UK from a heart attack. Seeing the toll it has taken on my mom and sisters. It’s all just hard to deal with. Like I have to grieve differently because I want to be there for them. Saying a prayer for you.

 

[Anon1751615377]

My heart goes out to you Big Blue Brother. May God take care of you and place his healing touch on you. I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep me in yours as well. My mom has stage four cancer and my wife and I just divorced after 15 years of marriage. I've never felt so alone or down in my life. UK basketball can't get here soon enough.

 

[kywildcat1021979]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Prayers to you and your family it’s really hard to lose a parent to that evil disease. I lost my dad in 2016 to cancer and mom in 2017 to cancer. I know what you’re going through I'm here for you man if you need anything!

 

[rick64]

Lost my mom in 2010. A day doesn't go by that I don't think about her. She was a huge UK fan. She would be getting fired up for football and basketball season.

 

[KFuqua]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Sorry to hear this. You'll be in my prayers. People on this board will always have your back. Take care of yourself and cheers to you and your mom!

 

[Simple Man]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

I'm really sorry for your loss,you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[cat tat2]

Praying for you and your family.

 

[rivercatinfl]

I always encourage people to read Romans 8:37-39 when they lose a loved one.
It certainly provides me with peace. I hope you find peace too.

 

[UK4Life#9]

God be with my Big Blue brothers that have lost loved ones recently! I’m so sorry, it’s a pain that can’t really be described. Lost my dad back in 2008 and still find myself grieving almost everyday. Not as many tears these days but sometimes a song will hit just right.

Look the clouds, feel the breeze upon your skin and the sun on your face and know that’s your loved one. You will catch a whiff of their cologne/perfume every once in a while and that will let you know they are with you as well. I find myself hoping for dreams that involve my dad!

Sending lots of prayers and big blue love y’alls way!

 

[Pygmy Sasquatch]

So sorry for your loss. Cancer is the worst.

 

[BlueSince92]

My heart goes out to @LineSkiCat14 and to everyone who’s shared similar losses and struggles in this thread, as well as those who have kept silent or haven’t caught up with this thread yet. Praying for all of you. I lost my dad unexpectedly in 2011 and am still messed up over it. Stayed up late last night poking through the data from a disk drive of his that I was finally able to decrypt and stabilize, hoping to find glimpses of his personality and his wisdom.

Jesus is the answer and the only answer. God bless you all.

 

[Eastkybball]

So sorry to hear!
I will put in a special prayer request at church tonight for you and your family.

 

[darkshadesofblue]

Sorry for your loss. Prayers and comfort for your family. I don’t want to imagine the thought of losing a parent

 

[ComebackCats98]

Praying for you and your family. My mom passed way in March after a two year battle with cancer. They initially gave her a few months. Coach Cal, Coach Pope and the players will never know how much of a help they were to me and my dad during her battle. It was a two hour distraction enjoying a sport we love. Pope especially gave us a fun Sweet 16 run just two weeks after. We’re all here for you

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

 

[wrcaud22]

This is my first time posting but I'm a long time lurker and UK fan. I'm sorry you're going through this. Mine passed away over 20 years ago and I wish I could say it gets easier. Hang in there buddy

 

[FireWentOut]

There's no one like mom. Sorry to hear about you losing her.

I wish I had some kind of sage advice to help heal the hurt but I don't. God bless.

 

[JPFisher]

I lost my dad when I was a teenager. I was his caregiver. The hurt and burnout you feel is very, very real. The grief is real. Decompress as much as you can. Counseling helped me process what I saw and experienced. There are groups dedicated to caregivers meeting up and discussing all of it. You're not alone, Man. Whether you find community on this forum with fellow fans or find it in a small group (or both), I hope you find peace.

Being a caregiver is taxing, but in my opinion, there is no greater act of service. I hope you can find some solace in the comfort and care you gave your mother. Be well, Friend.

 

[Vek96]

My condolences. When you lose your Mom, a part of you dies. Life goes on of course, and you eventually get to a new normal.

 

[MonsterMash79]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Prayers up brother

 

[BlueWorldOrder74]

@LineSkiCat14 - love you bro. Prayers and thoughts. So sorry. Let me know if you need anything at all.

 

[Johnnie Africa]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

sorry for your loss brother, and cheers to your mom.

 

[Anon1751658263]

Sorry brother, my mom passed away last year as well. You will get though this. She's not in pain anymore. Our deceased loved one's weep for us. Prayers for God to fill your family's hearts with peace.

 

[Burly Peters]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Man, I'm so sorry to hear this. You have my deepest condolences. I mean that. We've been talking on this board for years, even though my name is newish. The worst part of getting older is that everyone you love gets frail and passes. I've buried two brothers and a sister. I've still got my folks. I say we dedicate the upcoming season to your mom. It's going to be something.

 

[LineSkiCat14]

Oh man, didnt expect this much love. But again, thats Rupp Rafters (or whatever the heck we call this place? Idk anymore lol).

Thank you everyone for the support. I kind of alluded to it above, but for many of us, this is a community, and im so thankful to have the support from everyone.

 

[Rick Honcho]

I’m terribly sorry for your loss Ski. Prayers on the way for your mother and you

 

[Shaudylo]

Prayers to you and your family .

 

[*Fox2Monk*]

Mom's been through a ton of cancer her whole life. Got worse the last year and really just spent a lot of time taking care of her, her pets and the house, which was good in a ton of ways. But also taxing. Especially the last month. Passed away this past weekend and as the only relative to her, got that severely overwhelmed feeling for everything coming next. Shes at peace though and thats what's important.

My mom wasnt a sports fan at all, and as many here know, im not from Kentucky. But still, knowing how much I cared about the team, she would tune in come March and cheer on Kentucky (pretty sure she had no idea what was going on for half the game and was doing other things lol). Shed text me after big winsm Always would get me UK related Christmas gifts when she could. Stuff like that. Doing what mom's do.

Idk, just spent a lot of time here over the years. Seen similar posts. I know we have a lot of folks here who are various ages. Some lost parents, some grand parents. Some even lost children. Life is tragic, but this a great community with a ton of support. We talk to each other more than we talk to a lot of our coworkers or friends even. I think thats pretty cool and something probably overlooked by most of us a lot of times (I know I have).

Ill be back to posting on the usual forums in due time.. fantasy football, horror movies and all the like. But, having a few drinks for now and going through some old photo albums and belongings for the next week.

Cheers to you all, and cheers to my mom.

Sorry to hear that man, I’m in a similar spot. I hope you get it all done and can take a break for yourself. I will send prayers your way.

 

[*Fox2Monk*]

My heart goes out to you Big Blue Brother. May God take care of you and place his healing touch on you. I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep me in yours as well. My mom has stage four cancer and my wife and I just divorced after 15 years of marriage. I've never felt so alone or down in my life. UK basketball can't get here soon enough.

Damn man I will pray for you as well. My wife and I just celebrated 15 years. I hope a divorce never comes and I will be devastated when my mom passes away. She’s one of the only people I have left.

 

[Vek96]

My heart goes out to you Big Blue Brother. May God take care of you and place his healing touch on you. I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep me in yours as well. My mom has stage four cancer and my wife and I just divorced after 15 years of marriage. I've never felt so alone or down in my life. UK basketball can't get here soon enough.

I’m sorry to hear that you’re dealing with this. Remember this, though it may sound hollow right now, but, time will help. Hopefully you have a hobby to keep you busy. You’ll find a new woman.

Plenty of sites that will match you up when you’re ready for that.

Losing your Mom is painful. I know this first hand. However, after a grieving period, you will likely have dreams with her in them. When I have dreams with my Mom in them, I feel like I’m still spending time with her, and that comforts me a great deal.

 

[LineSkiCat14]

Sorry to hear that man, I’m in a similar spot. I hope you get it all done and can take a break for yourself. I will send prayers your way.

Its brutal for sure. Been a long year but we got to spend time together and she was able to spend time with her granddaughter as well, which was so very important.

Im sure you know this, but definitely take the extra time to spend with loved ones.

 

[Vek96]

Damn man I will pray for you as well. My wife and I just celebrated 15 years. I hope a divorce never comes and I will be devastated when my mom passes away. She’s one of the only people I have left.

Is your Mom not doing well?

 

[*Fox2Monk*]

Is your Mom not doing well?

She’s just aging and having issues related to that. Seems every year she gets worse ya know. Nothing serious at the moment but she probably won’t be around too much longer. She will be 80 this year. She is on a cruise right now but right before they docked she fell at a restaurant, she may have broken ribs and a concussion but she refused medical service because she would have missed boarding it. She saw the doctor on board but they can’t do as much for her as she could at a hospital. She’s toughing It out till she returns tomorrow.

 

[Vek96]

She’s just aging and having issues related to that. Seems every year she gets worse ya know. Nothing serious at the moment but she probably won’t be around too much longer. She will be 80 this year. She is on a cruise right now but right before they docked she fell at a restaurant, she may have broken ribs and a concussion but she refused medical service because she would have missed boarding it. She saw the doctor on board but they can’t do as much for her as she could at a hospital. She’s toughing It out till she returns tomorrow.

She seems like she’s pretty tough. Stay positive, and just make sure you treasure the time you have left with her. My Mom passed away in 2017, from ALS. It was heartbreaking to see her not be able to move or speak the last few weeks. It was so cruel for a woman with so much energy, and love for life, to watch die in an undignified way. She was just 72.

 

[*Fox2Monk*]

She seems like she’s pretty tough. Stay positive, and just make sure you treasure the time you have left with her. My Mom passed away in 2017, from ALS. It was heartbreaking to see her not be able to move or speak the last few weeks. It was so cruel for a woman with so much energy, and love for life, to watch die in an undignified way. She was just 72.

Yeah I love my mom, I spend almost everyday with her that I can. My wife and I take care of her and help her out.

 

[Pygmy Sasquatch]

Yeah I love my mom, I spend almost everyday with her that I can. My wife and I take care of her and help her out.

That's why I'm pulling up stakes and moving back. My mom had a hard fight with breast cancer a few years ago, and beat that, but it's reappeared. She's 5' of Eastern Kentucky and tougher than a two dollar steak. I just want to come home, spend time with her and help her out.

 

[BlueRocker777]

So sorry for your loss. Losing a parent can be heart breaking. I'll say a prayer for you and your family.