If you were, you would:
Go to a certain church -- there are a couple of satisfactory options, but preferably CUMC.
Send your kids to a certain elementary school. Choose one of these -- JA, First Presbyterian, or if you and your wife are "progressive", St. Andrews.
Send your kids to a certain high school -- again, you have multiple options. Three, to be exact: JA, Prep, or St. A.
You will join the Country Club of Jackson. This part is non-negotiable.
She will join the Junior <span style="text-decoration:line-through">Plague</span> League.
She will not have a "job" per se, but will work extremely hard at Junior League, school events, tennis, afternoon tea (read: wine-drinking), shopping, and the scheduling of outside activities for the kids -- all of which will keep her very busy and make her tired.
When you get home from work, you need to be ready take over the kids. Like I said, she will be tired.
When they get older, if your kids went to JA, they are allowed to attend MSU or Ole Miss. If your kids went to Prep, sorry - there's only one option available.
All of this would fall under "Option A - staying happily married". There is an "Option B - other", but that can be discussed at another time.
Did I miss anything?
(For any NEJ women out there who may read this -- I describe this lifestyle with no malice or judgment. Just trying to give this young fellow a glimpse into why/who pays $10k (per child) to attend private school. Just trying to share my knowledge.)