You pretty much hit the nail on the head.
Things are different now than when I was scouting and was around teams on a daily basis. The late 70's was when I got my start and you know how those Yankees teams were at that time. Didn't matter if the manager was Billy Martin, Bob Lemon, Yogi, etc. The players on the roster as a whole were mean and driven and frequently fought each other in the clubhouse but not on the field. George went out and got the players and the managers were told to WIN. They pissed players off, pissed George off, etc. But they won. They were not friends to the players buddying up to them in the dugout. Boone having a say so in what players the Yankees get is not good in my eyes.
A funny story. I grew up with Barry Foote and played Legion ball with him. I was delighted when the Cubs traded him to the Yankees. Goose was pitching one game and walked 2 straight batters. Barry walked out to the mound and Goose growled athim, "What the **** are you doing out here?" Barry told him he needed to throw some strikes. Goose yelled at him, "Get the **** off my mound!" Barry yelled back, "Well, throw some damn strikes!" Goose struck out three in a row. I only see Barry now once every few years and the first thing I say to him is, "Get the **** off my mound!" lmao
Can you imagine players today doing that in a game? Need some mean players in this current group.