few tips from a local
I live up here, and have a 3 year old and a seven year old. Here's a few ideas.
1. Dollywood is closed until end of March
2. The Peddler, while great, is always busy. A much better choice, IMO, is a place about a block away called the Park Grill Steakhouse. It is the same steak, and it really is a great steak - they are owned by the same people. The Park Grill is less crowded, more kid friendly, and they usually have this old dude playing piano and singing Burt Bacarat songs, it is awesome. I have to say, the old mill isn't my cup of tea.
3. Be very aware of the difference between Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge. Pigeon Forge is pretty much drive only. You can send the ladies down there to the outlet malls, and there are some interesting attractions like the Titanic, the upside down place (don't remember the name) that actually has a lot of interactive science and technology exhibits, the shows like Dixie stampede (expensive, but includes dinner) and that kind of stuff. But it is basically attractions on the side of the road.
4. Gatlinburg is designed for people who want to explore using their feet. There is lots of good things to see - somebody mentioned that there is a moonshine still downtown, that is 100% true, and you can go in there and sample all the flavors until you are drunk as a skunk. The aquarium is great, it includes a massive walk-thru shark tank, a place the kids can pet the stingrays, etc. really well done. You can start walking from the aquarium, which is right on the little pigeon river, and walk around the whole town. Lots of little cheesy places to get your picture taken, or play an arcade game, eat some fondue, candy shops, a KarmelKorn, lots of little attractions and museums, etc. My kids really enjoy walking around exploring the town it when the weather is decent.
gatlinburg has actually slowed down a lot in terms of traffic in the last 10 years - People don't walk as much anymore, and Pigeon Forge has pulled away a lot of business. I could give a **** about pigeon forge - I love dollywood on Sunday evenings when all the tourists go home, but that's about it. On the other hand, I'll bring the girls up to Gatlinburg every few weeks to get a steak at the grill and walk around enjoying the town.
5. Gatlinburg literally butts up against the smoky mountain national park. There are tons of trails, etc. right there, in addition, just outside of town is a really well done park center with trailhead, lots of info on the park, etc. The streams and rivers are clear, cold, and just the thing for kids to wade around in. Bring your fly or spinning rod and grab a one day license - park fishing is single hook, lures only.
4. One of the most beautiful minor league baseball fields is up here - the Tennessee Smokies. They play the Pearl team i'm pretty sure. I doubt their season is in swing yet, but any of you reading this that will be up this way should really take advantage of the park, it is amazing. Also, there is a huge Bass pro shops across the street from the park.
5. The ziplines are insane, and my seven year old did them. One of them is like half a mile long, over gorgeous country.
6. The road to Cherokee that went through the park washed out last month, and won't be fixed for several months. The casino in Cherokee has grown massively in the last several years, and the reservation is pretty cool (great golf course as well). Getting there is a little more of a pain now, but not that bad - about an hour from Gatlinburg.
Hope you have a great trip.