As a Financial Advisor, I thought I would add the following:
1) As a former person who managed my own investments (before becoming an advisor), I completely understand someone wanting to manage their own if they enjoy it. However, if you don't have adequate time or don't have a passion for it, and advisor can make a big difference.
2) There is no right or wrong answer about any of these topics. You cannot pick an investment strategy to fit a group of people. Each individual has their own risk profile, amount of assets, retirement income needs, etc. As such, every product out there has some benefits to certain individuals. I am not a big proponent of whole life insurance, but it does have its place. If income replacement is your goal, term insurance is the way to go. If you want to leverage an increased death benefit for your heirs, a cash value (whole, universal, variable) life insurance policy can do that. Variable annuities can be great for some people, but they are expensive. They are a "peace of mind" investment, which become more popular everyday as we see continued volatility in the markets. It is never appropriate to have all of your investments in an annuity, but having a portion of your investments (10-30%) is often appropriate because it can provide guaranteed income. They are expensive, but you are paying for peace of mind, not for the best returns during the good times.
3) Target funds are generally not a good idea because they lump every individual at a certain age into the same bucket, despite the fact each person has different goals, risks tolerance, assets, etc. However, they can be a good option for retirement plans that have limited options. They are usually a good alternative to someone throwing darts at the funds in their retirement plan.
4) The role of an advisor is not solely to beat a benchmark. If you hire an advisor to do that, you will likely be disappointed at some point. The right advisor can help you assess your risk profile, make sure you are not taking more risk than necessary to reach your goals, help remove the human emotion from investing and keeping you committed during difficult times, keep you abreast of changing investement strategies due to impending tax consequences, etc. The assumption that the general investor can get the same returns as an advisor is based on the false premise that the investor can stay the course even during the difficult times. But in fact, several studies have shown that the average investor signficantly underperforms the market because they buy high and sell low (due to emotion getting in the way). As someone said, no advisor is going to care as much about your money as you. I do feel a very large responsibility to my clients and would say that a different way: an advisor will not be as emotionally tied to your money as you will.
5) Morningstar ratings are by themselves not a good indicator of future performance of a mutual fund. Their star ratings are based solely on historical performance. Indeed, we have done studies that generally show most 4 and 5 star funds will eventually become 2 or 3 star funds at some point. Managers have good years and bad years. An advisor with a good firm can help you find funds that should perform well in the future (regardless of whether they have the historical performance of a 4 or 5 star fund).
6) Lastly, in this industry, the best investors are only right 70% of the time, so be prepared (whether doing it alone or with an advisor) to be wrong. You have to define a goal and stick to your plan.
7) One way to help smooth out volatility is to allocate a portion of your investments into alternative strategies (commodities, futures, precious metals, real estate, hedge funds, etc). These investments do not have a direct correlation with the stock market and can be a good defensive measure to smooth out volatility.