LOMFL! Holy ****! You have posted almost 20,000 times!!! Your analogy was woefully incorrect even without knowing anything about this guy you are calling a goat. Wow. Usually it takes a while to sort out who the actual idiots are on a message board, but you are leaving absolutely no doubt!!
OT: Divorce advice (generic)
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LOMFL! Holy ****! You have posted almost 20,000 times!!! Your analogy was woefully incorrect even without knowing anything about this guy you are calling a goat. Wow. Usually it takes a while to sort out who the actual idiots are on a message board, but you are leaving absolutely no doubt!!
Wow Goat, based only on your responses and wording in this thread, you have been seriously hurt by the opposite gender.
You seem to be ignoring the legal benefits afforded to married couples versus two people who are dating.
You know, the legal part of marriage?...the part that divorce is needed for?
Wow, Ur2KeWl.
Really, i couldnt imagine living your life- i too would probably feel the need to often drink in excess. I cant imagine the emotional cripples that you attact. You are clearly proud of who you are, so thats a plus, i guess.
Really, i couldnt imagine living your life- i too would probably feel the need to often drink in excess. I cant imagine the emotional cripples that you attact. You are clearly proud of who you are, so thats a plus, i guess.
I'm kinda real- being an online celebrity is demanding and exhausting, so I had to hire help to keep up. Coach34 is now 3 people, and we take turns so the others can rest.
I love trolls- welcome
The same one that ran out on his family and then got pissed when he couldn't please his wife and she ran out on him.
Pretty sure it's that one.
Pretty sure it's that one.
I am very concerned with the fem-lib-tard agenda being portrayed all over this country. Excuse me for giving a ****. Now, back to your scheduled white knighting. I bet you're the man on Valentine's Day.
Sounds like most of you should use a little better judgement in choosing a wife, instead of giving in to the pressure of getting married simply because western society tells you to do it.
Write her this letter (best divorce letter ever). Don't read if easily offended.
http://urlybits.com/2010/03/best-divorce-letter-ever
This should ease her pain and yours.
http://urlybits.com/2010/03/best-divorce-letter-ever
This should ease her pain and yours.
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Not sure what the world's advice is.
Divorce rates are a sad thing to see- to me, it shows a lot. For some, they arent ready. For others, they expect their partner to make them happy and are upset when they find out it isnt up to another person to make them happy, they have to do that for themselves. People seem to want greener pastures now when compared to early last century, etc etc.
But to say one shouldnt get divorced because a book from a couple thousand years ago says not to is...a weak reason when looked at from a logical standpoint.
1- I honestly do not have any idea what a 'fem-lib-tard agenda' is. I have a feeling that if you were to define it, i would laugh pretty hard at your assessment.
2- Last week, i spent Valentine's Day driving one kid to soccer and another to tumbling. I didnt get or give a gift. That continues my streak of probably 10 years in a row of doing nothing for Valentine's Day. So nope, im not the man.
Aww, you have given me a nickname, how cute.
When compared to someone who shows such contempt for the opposite gender, i can see being called that, but only because i am being compared to such an extreme viewpoint.
As for the legal benefits of marriage, are you actually ignorant of these, or just want to see that i am able to both google something and type a response?
You cant seriously be unaware of legal benefits of marriage.
Marriage qualifies a couple for over 1000 federal benefits and responsibilites, and then you also have to add in the State ones too.
To keep it very general-
-health issues
-property issues
-death issues
-children
-taxes
Those are the 5 major topics where the many benefits fall into. If you need specifics, instead of typing a response asking for them, use that same effort to google 'legal benefits of marriage'. Consider this one of those teaching a man to fish moments.
The world's advice? Do whatever feels good. Serve yourself. Don't worry about consequences.
Works out great in a holy and divinely established covenant where two parties are supposed to love, sacrifice, and submit.
Works out great in a holy and divinely established covenant where two parties are supposed to love, sacrifice, and submit.
The legal benefits do not add up to anything, period. I bet you're the type of guy who buys a truck because you can write it off or some other stupid **** like that, because that's the category all your 'legal benefits' fall into. If those items you listed are what you used as basis for getting married, then you are a dumb son of a b*tch.
And yes, my view is extreme. Do yourself a favor, unplug yourself from the matrix. You could learn a little bit. Your shaming techniques (pointing at "contempt for the opposite gender") was very predictable.
And yes, my view is extreme. Do yourself a favor, unplug yourself from the matrix. You could learn a little bit. Your shaming techniques (pointing at "contempt for the opposite gender") was very predictable.
Seriously. This is great advice by drt. Delete your stuff now...especially the parts where you discuss what you and your lawyer have planned or are planning. Either delete it, or get somebody to say something racist or use a SPS rule-breaking word to get this mother locked down.
I am so confused. When did the world's advice become do whatever feels good and not to worry about consequences?
The world is full of people who view women as property and have multiple wives, others who marry someone without meeting them first and stay married for life, traditional strong family-centric cultures in Asia and the Americas, and a total mix of everything in Europe.
Seriously, when did the world take a position and advise on this issue?
Sorry, you prick. I guess we could just say the United States. Western civilization in general.
You know what the point is you insufferable bastard. Stop trying to argue.
You know what the point is you insufferable bastard. Stop trying to argue.
Talk about the matrix...i feel like i am watching some insane plot!
1- The legal benefits do not add up to anything? I really dont know where to go with this. You are so clearly ignorant or angry with reality that you arent able or willing to recognize something as obvious as legally benefitting from marriage.
Estate inheriting.
SS, SSDi, and military benefits.
Insurance benefits from spouse's employer.
FMLA- time off allowed to care for spouse.
Receiving wages, disability, or retirement plan benefits from deceased spouse.
Marital communication privilage.
Visitation rights in jail
etc etc etc. Damn you are a moron. The benefits should be clear. If not, just look at the examples above and think about how they would help. Help = benefit.
2- You seem to equate marital benefits only with financial gain. Thats a shame because anyone who marries for financial benefit is in it for the wrong reason.
3- The reasons i listed arent why i married, they are simple benefits of marriage beyond a religious union. That is what i was responding to- the accusation that the only point to getting married is a religious one. I pointed to all the legal protection benefits as ways in which marriage is beneficial outside of religious reasons.
Damn you cant follow threads very well.
4- Unplug from the Matrix? Ok Morpheus, tell me what i am missing here that i should see. Ha ha, i feel like you are trying to drop some Allegory of the Cave on me here by telling me to open my eyes and see that the reality i see thru shadows isnt a reality at all. Please, by all means, enlighten me to what i am missing by being 'plugged in'.
1- The legal benefits do not add up to anything? I really dont know where to go with this. You are so clearly ignorant or angry with reality that you arent able or willing to recognize something as obvious as legally benefitting from marriage.
Estate inheriting.
SS, SSDi, and military benefits.
Insurance benefits from spouse's employer.
FMLA- time off allowed to care for spouse.
Receiving wages, disability, or retirement plan benefits from deceased spouse.
Marital communication privilage.
Visitation rights in jail
etc etc etc. Damn you are a moron. The benefits should be clear. If not, just look at the examples above and think about how they would help. Help = benefit.
2- You seem to equate marital benefits only with financial gain. Thats a shame because anyone who marries for financial benefit is in it for the wrong reason.
3- The reasons i listed arent why i married, they are simple benefits of marriage beyond a religious union. That is what i was responding to- the accusation that the only point to getting married is a religious one. I pointed to all the legal protection benefits as ways in which marriage is beneficial outside of religious reasons.
Damn you cant follow threads very well.
4- Unplug from the Matrix? Ok Morpheus, tell me what i am missing here that i should see. Ha ha, i feel like you are trying to drop some Allegory of the Cave on me here by telling me to open my eyes and see that the reality i see thru shadows isnt a reality at all. Please, by all means, enlighten me to what i am missing by being 'plugged in'.
Oh ****, this just gets better. I am the prick for saying i dont know what the 'worlds advice' is, when world isnt what was actually meant the entire time?
Sorry for actually reading what is typed and responding to what is typed. Its a rare thing to do on here, i know.
You are right. They are SIMPLE. They simply don't matter in the big scheme of things. Simple consolations, not a reason to do anything.
Marriage IS a religious institution. Religion is THE reason to get married, and I'm all for it, when it's done right.
You are the stupid one, pal, if you think the only way to set up those 'benefits', as you call it, is to be married.
The rest of your post is garbage.
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