My wife was forced to have a Radical Hysterectomy at 34 due to Cervical/Uterine Cancer. This also forced her into a form of early Menopause. She went through years of the symptoms and tried just about everything. She finally just stopped all the hormone therapy (Guinee pig therapy) and it got better over the years. But it was never as bad as what I have read her or anywhere else. I tried to stay sympathetic to her challenges and not compound the issue if she was short, didn't feel good and was just having a bad day. With that being said, next month will be 37 years that God has blessed me with my amazing wife and there is not a day that goes by that I don't thank Him because 24 years ago He could have allowed her not to be delivered.
So, I choose to be patient with her, because I know I'm no joy to live with either sometimes.