to someone who is buying a first gun is this. consider the magazine size. my springfield 45 carries a 13 rd clip so when it is loaded it is heavy. many folks don't compare the weight loaded vs empty but you should cause its significantly different. my point is, especially if you are ever going to carry it for protection, i'd consider a smaller weapon with maybe an 8 rd clip. maybe a 380 or 40 cal. with hollow points they will certainly do the trick and frankly if you get in a dicy situation 8 shots is probably enough. by the time you get of 3 or 4 its likely going to be over. these tv gun battles are not real.