Yes it is. For all of us, the kids won't forget what happened to them no matter what meaningless game could be set up. Best to lick our wounds and move on to something else, whether that be basketball, wrestling, college applications or prep for spring sports it's time to try and heal. It was a heck of a season and there will always be that little "what if" "lingering in our minds but I heard from Naz people that the boys told their parents it was all about the journey and the extra time spent together rather than the destination and the hardware. As that message sunk in I realized they were correct. The boys were blessed with an extra 4 weeks and a journey they'll never forget. I'm thankful for that. I was talked into moving on and that's what I will do, no matter how little "sense" it makes. Something good will be around the corner for those boys, I believe that. Good luck to Plainfield North, I harbor no I'll will towards them. I won't be watching that game as I hope none of the families will instead I'll have something else planned for my son. I understand everyone tries to make sense of it their own way. I don't think your intent is bad but just let it go. Not only would your hypothetical games never happen but we wouldn't want them and they wouldn't help our boys anyways. Thanks to all for the kind wishes and support, at some point I'll fill my son in on the outrage in this board lol. Now simply isn't the time. I'm done posting on this topic, and done with kids playing under the umbrella of IHSA football. Maybe that will make this board even more fun for me, I know I'll be less invested! I spent the last 4 or so years doing my best to leave me kids and even their team out of it. I thought I did a good job of that. I often bite my tongue as to not embarrass them or their friends. I didn't think it right to use this board to shove my kid down your throats, I often filtered myself with the exception of last night. My apologies about my blow up but that was tough to deal with. I went through all stages of grief out here publicly! I'm glad no one on here knows who my son is because I didn't have the opportunity to embarrass him! Moving forward I will have no reason to filter myself, no one to worry about embarrassing, which simply means Ill fit in well here!