1. Those who really do believe that MSU, Mullen, Stricklin, et al have never, and will never cheat to get a player. That's who you're talking about. It's hard for me to comprehend, but apparently those people do exist.
2. The realists, who know how it works and understand that every team at some point has to add a little lagniappe to get recruits to commit. Some players don't warrant it, obviously, but 99% of the top recruits know they can get something, and they expect it. So, yes, everybody does it. But, you're leaving out a pretty big factor -- this year is different for us. We are being closely watched, whether you believe it or not, because of past dealings with Slive. I could go on a rant about the **** that he has done to us, or let happen to us, but I'll spare you. No, I'm not a conspiracy theorist who thinks he's actively out to get us. But I know that he doesn't give two ***** about MSU. He tolerates us because he has to. Would he hesitate to crush the school who led to the national exposure of the fallacies in his precious "probation-free SEC" policies under his mighty power? Nope, not for an instant. I think he would enjoy it.
So, you put our hesitation to aggressively pursue players together with Ole Miss/Nutt being a little desperate to make a statement, and we are where we are today. It's pretty simple. And I'll add a pre-emptive answer to your next question and say that we are where we are in part because of decisions we (mainly Mullen) have made in the past. So it's hard to complain too much about our situation when we caused it. That's why I don't get too upset about it. We'll move on, be successful on the field again this coming season, then hopefully have an easier time of it next year.
The bottom line answer to your question is, NO, I don't believe anyone is squeaky clean. We're just having to suffer through this year, and that gets people pissed.