At the end clarret made the statement, "show me your friends and I'll show you your future". And I immediately thought back to who his best friend was in college.
The thing is that this sort of thing happens all the time with great athletes, on a much smaller scale. Young kids with no positive male influence repeatedly make bad decisions and it Costa them an opportunity to better themselves. Whether to play pro sports or use sport to get an education. But at the end of the day people have to be accountable for their actions.
It does, which is why I wish coaches took a stronger stance than a lot of them do. They know their influence.
To his credit, he takes full responsibility, and I respect that. What he did was HORRIBLE, and could have ended really tragically- and that's what should scare people- especially the system we have in place. Honestly, I think if they'd just handled it all up front and gave him some normal punishment, he wouldn't have turned out that way.
Like I said, that just makes me mad that people in charge of kids and young adults don't take more responsibility than they do. I've just seen it too much, maybe. Had a guy that I went to HS with- GREAT guy. Likable, hard worker, smart, motivated. Good basketball player. Single mom that worked a few jobs to let him go to Catholic school to keep him away from bad influences. But they were poor and lived in the bad part of town.
Got to JUCO, coach kinda mis-led him about how he wanted to use him, really mis-used him IMO (I was there playing another sport and watched). The coach really wasn't very good and had a lot of problems outside of his job and didn't help his players much. Kid got kinda fed up with it, transferred to another school. Had a baby with his girlfriend. Had to drop out of school because he didn't have a scholarship anymore. Ended up robbing a dollar store (inside job) to help feed his family. Going to school with him, NEVER could have seen that from him- I think he really just got in a bad spot and did something totally stupid with no intent to hurt anyone but take money. We were all shocked.
And really, if his coach in JUCO had only kept him in school long enough to stay on the honor roll, the guy could have had a full ride to the school he transferred to. But he didn't know that. Just makes me mad. And yes, it's ultimately his fault and he shouldn't have done it. But when you're young and life comes at you really fast, some are going to mess up. I just don't think he would have done it had he felt he had any way out- and what's sad is I think a lot of people would have helped him had he asked, but I guess he was either too proud or just felt trapped.
I don't know. I can see Tressell feeling the heat, but you have to be there for him.