⚽️⚽️⚽️…Delusional Youth Soccer Parent Thread

Honkv

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Energy didn't have a great weekend and they have most of the best kids in Oklahoma. WSA may be marginally better but they scored "Zero" goals in 6 games today. Most TSC teams will struggle. Not a good look for girls soccer in Oklahoma.

We played against possible the *best* in the country today and played well for the most part.

I think you might be jumping the gun on how WSA is going to do this year.

Give it time. Whether TSC kept NL, Blitz got it, etc., it was never going to be an over night fix.
 

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We played against possible the *best* in the country today and played well for the most part.

I think you might be jumping the gun on how WSA is going to do this year.

Give it time. Whether TSC kept NL, Blitz got it, etc., it was never going to be an over night fix.
I try not to have "Dad" goggles on. I watched the FC Dallas 13's and the TSC 13's couldn't hang with them. Sorry if you believe (And maybe I'm wrong) about being marginally better. WSA scored "0" goals in NL today. RL wasn't great either. I don't care what letters are on the chest Tulsa can't compete currently. It's not a knock on WSA it's the conference youplay in. You're playing for about 5th when the season starts.
 
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Energy didn't have a great weekend and they have most of the best kids in Oklahoma. WSA may be marginally better but they scored "Zero" goals in 6 games today. Most TSC teams will struggle. Not a good look for girls soccer in Oklahoma.
I believe the Energy 11s and 12s won today. To be fair to Oklahoma soccer, the FCD and Royal partner games are by far the toughest duo of the Texas league. Just bad luck Wsa and Energy had to open with that pair. Let’s see how those clubs fare against the mid level teams.

WSA’s 09s have a shot to make top 5-6 in league. Same for Energy’s 10s and 11s. Pot half full for those girls is you’re playing against some of the country’s best teams. You will have lots of college eyeballs on you. If you play well against the best you will get noticed.
 
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I believe the Energy 11s and 12s won today. To be fair to Oklahoma soccer, the FCD and Royal partner games are by far the toughest duo of the Texas league. Just bad luck Wsa and Energy had to open with that pair. Let’s see how those clubs fare against the mid level teams.
100% Solar, Real Colorado, Sting Black etc. are no joke either. It's a "Texas League ECNL is brutal". Changing jersey's and losing more top players from Tulsa doesn't solve the problems......
 

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100% Solar, Real Colorado, Sting Black etc. are no joke either. It's a "Texas League ECNL is brutal". Changing jersey's and losing more top players from Tulsa doesn't solve the problems......
Sting Black only went .500 this weekend against Albion and Challenge. Surprised me a bit. Losing coaches like Tatu to Royal was bound to hurt.
 

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Sting Black only went .500 this weekend against Albion and Challenge. Surprised me a bit. Losing coaches like Tatu to Royal was bound to hurt.

Black lost Tatu and the entire roster. Royal = Black from last year.

I'm sorry if my frustration is coming through in my posts. A lot can change in just a handful of months.
 

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100% Solar, Real Colorado, Sting Black etc. are no joke either. It's a "Texas League ECNL is brutal". Changing jersey's and losing more top players from Tulsa doesn't solve the problems......

Sting black in TX Conf is awful this year. Solar got smashed 12-0 by Classics elite and drew with Sting Austin. There really is only 1 co team that's "good"
 

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Sting black in TX Conf is awful this year. Solar got smashed 12-0 by Classics elite and drew with Sting Austin. There really is only 1 co team that's "good"
Did Solar play their NL squad? They were one of the top teams in the country last year. Classic NL 12s are ranked behind most RL teams in Texas. Score reversed ?
 

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Did Solar play their NL squad? They were one of the top teams in the country last year. Classic NL 12s are ranked behind most RL teams in Texas. Score reversed ?

I have no clue. League cup games are whatever, but that’s what the ECNL app says.
 

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Had the U13 NL and the RL games vs Sting Royal today. WSA U13 NLs lost 15-0. I was AR1. I can 100% say that this Sting team was not nearly as good as the FC Dallas U13s. Not nearly as crisp IMo. They’re also not nearly as athletic. I got the feeling after a few minutes and down a couple goals, most of the WSA girls didn’t want to be out there.

I centered the RL game again. This was actually a really entertaining game, 1-1 at half and back and forth the entire game. My game tracker said I ran 4.5 miles in this one. I am also convinced all parents should sit through the FIFA/IFAB handball seminar and the clarifications, etc. Not every time the ball touches the hand is there a handball offense. And this was one of those games. And almost never is there a handball offenses if the ball comes off another part of a player and then the ball hits the hand. It’s just annoying having to listen to it.

My son did RL boys games at River Parks. Between his games he texted me and said something to the effect of “Theses hillbilly Arkansas Rising parents are something else”.
 
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Had the U13 NL and the RL games vs Sting Royal today.

I centered the RL game again. This was actually a really entertaining game, 1-1 at half and back and forth the entire game. My game tracker said I ran 4.5 miles in this one.

My daughter played in the RL game and it was a blast to watch. High energy, back and forth the whole way. Super entertaining. I actually think parent training wouldn’t be the worst idea. 🤣 I’d sign up!
 
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I was at West Bank Saturday mornin'. Watching some '13 WSA boys who clearly don't understand the whole "bunching up" thing. It was 9 a.m. so I didn't have a cooler full of beer to help with my lack of patience.
 
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My daughter played in the RL game and it was a blast to watch. High energy, back and forth the whole way. Super entertaining. I actually think parent training wouldn’t be the worst idea. 🤣 I’d sign up!
It was nice meeting you afterwards. Always a pleasure meeting TU board posters IRL.

BTW, I like the makeup of your daughter's team. There are some good players out there and there are some who just keep fighting (little blonde pig tailed girl that played LFB was one that stood out. When she grows a bit and isn't a foot shorter and 100lbs lighter than some of the girls she's trying to mark, she's going to cause problems going up the wing. I don't know who the primary coach is but it's clear the girls are understanding what Kas wants and this group seems better technically skilled than the NL team. They play faster and by that I mean they see the field and their openings and they do pretty well at the short, tight passing game. Right now they're physically over matched and that's going to happen with a U12 team playing up on an 11v11 field against girls who are true U13s. I understand the results aren't what parents want to see but sitting where I was sitting between games, at half, and after the game, I got to hear pretty much everything the coach told them and I can assure you he's telling them all the right things. It also seems that they might be down a couple of players due to injury?

And I really like the GK. She has good instinct for the position and understands when to come out and challenge and she's pretty aggressive about it. I was really impressed with the one where she charged hard to meet the 1v1 in the 2nd half and basically forced a terrible shot wide of goal. I don't think the attacker was ready for that and she rushed her thought process and action. IMO, she is a better GK than the girl the NL side is running out there.
 
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It was nice meeting you afterwards. Always a pleasure meeting TU board posters IRL.

BTW, I like the makeup of your daughter's team. There are some good players out there and there are some who just keep fighting (little blonde pig tailed girl that played LFB was one that stood out. When she grows a bit and isn't a foot shorter and 100lbs lighter than some of the girls she's trying to mark, she's going to cause problems going up the wing. I don't know who the primary coach is but it's clear the girls are understanding what Kas wants and this group seems better technically skilled than the NL team. They play faster and by that I mean they see the field and their openings and they do pretty well at the short, tight passing game. Right now they're physically over matched and that's going to happen with a U12 team playing up on an 11v11 field against girls who are true U13s. I understand the results aren't what parents want to see but sitting where I was sitting between games, at half, and after the game, I got to hear pretty much everything the coach told them and I can assure you he's telling them all the right things. It also seems that they might be down a couple of players due to injury?

And I really like the GK. She has good instinct for the position and understands when to come out and challenge and she's pretty aggressive about it. I was really impressed with the one where she charged hard to meet the 1v1 in the 2nd half and basically forced a terrible shot wide of goal. I don't think the attacker was ready for that and she rushed her thought process and action. IMO, she is a better GK than the girl the NL side is running out there.


It was great to meet you as well! And thanks for the feedback, it’s always helpful to get objective perspective. I passed along your kind words to the parents of the GK and LFB. The LFB you mentioned is full of energy and fight, and she’s only a 2015! We’re dealing with some injuries now, and I suspect that will always be part of the journey. Thankfully they seem short-term and (fingers crossed) non-chronic.

The team has great chemistry, talent, culture, and coaching. We’re ready to spend our time in the Texas RL cauldron as preparation for next year.
 
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Yes that 2013 RL team will be 2014 NL next year (assuming things stay the same, I really like Waylon). WSA has to not only solve the 13's NL issue (which was 0-28 this weekend) but they will have to form a 2013 RL team and RL Frontier. Several 2013's can drop with age change but only a couple of 2012's can drop (from my info). WSA was 6 goals for and 60 against this weekend in NL. I've heard Dallas teams are unhappy about having to come play here. That's not just a WSA issue, Texas doesn't think they need Oklahoma and Colorado. (That includes Energy). Will there be a ECNL Frontier next year? Will that be better than GA? Will Greenwood make a splash in girls? Just sit back with your popcorn and enjoy the next 10 months......... Oh and WSA plays in Denver the last weekend of Jan. (who @ ECNL thinks that's a good idea???) I could see a lot of kids sick and injured for that trip.
 

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Yes that 2013 RL team will be 2014 NL next year (assuming things stay the same, I really like Waylon). WSA has to not only solve the 13's NL issue (which was 0-28 this weekend) but they will have to form a 2013 RL team and RL Frontier. Several 2013's can drop with age change but only a couple of 2012's can drop (from my info). WSA was 6 goals for and 60 against this weekend in NL. I've heard Dallas teams are unhappy about having to come play here. That's not just a WSA issue, Texas doesn't think they need Oklahoma and Colorado. (That includes Energy). Will there be a ECNL Frontier next year? Will that be better than GA? Will Greenwood make a splash in girls? Just sit back with your popcorn and enjoy the next 10 months......... Oh and WSA plays in Denver the last weekend of Jan. (who @ ECNL thinks that's a good idea???) I could see a lot of kids sick and injured for that trip.
Dallas teams don’t really mind playing Energy. Games are usually competitive and drive is similar if not closer to places like Houston, San Antonio and Austin. Not saying there’s not some Texas arrogance in place because there is. Dallas teams hated everything about TSC. Teams were generally of poor quality. The leadership was not only poor but difficult to work with and field quality was generally subpar prior to Scheels.

That said, Energy isn’t going anywhere. WSA will get 4-5 years and they should. There is no solution for the 13s at WSA as long as the top kids stay at TSC. Tulsa doesn’t have the talent depth to field two quality teams. TSC has the same problem for all of their girls teams sans the 13s. They will fare better due to the lower competition level but those girls will still suffer from a development standpoint from training against lesser players at practice.

Greenwood might draw some academy level girls but they have no platform once those kids hit competitive. They won’t be a player without a competitive platform. The question for me is how much will Greenwood affect TSC ECNL boys teams? Will TSC have a competitive platform next season for their boys side? How long can ECNL and GA co-exist in the Tulsa area before it absolutely destroys any hope of having competitive area teams? I simply don’t see the current situation as sustainable.
 

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Dallas teams don’t really mind playing Energy. Games are usually competitive and drive is similar if not closer to places like Houston, San Antonio and Austin. Not saying there’s not some Texas arrogance in place because there is. Dallas teams hated everything about TSC. Teams were generally of poor quality. The leadership was not only poor but difficult to work with and field quality was generally subpar prior to Scheels.

That said, Energy isn’t going anywhere. WSA will get 4-5 years and they should. There is no solution for the 13s at WSA as long as the top kids stay at TSC. Tulsa doesn’t have the talent depth to field two quality teams. TSC has the same problem for all of their girls teams sans the 13s. They will fare better due to the lower competition level but those girls will still suffer from a development standpoint from training against lesser players at practice.

Greenwood might draw some academy level girls but they have no platform once those kids hit competitive. They won’t be a player without a competitive platform. The question for me is how much will Greenwood affect TSC ECNL boys teams? Will TSC have a competitive platform next season for their boys side? How long can ECNL and GA co-exist in the Tulsa area before it absolutely destroys any hope of having competitive area teams? I simply don’t see the current situation as sustainable.
I agree with most of this. I've heard WSA won't get 4-5 years. (They need to show improvement in 2 which they very well could). I'm a big fan of Roger (not of some of his staff). Energy doesn't have a travel partner without WSA, Celtic or FC Wichita. Everyone say's (You included I think) that TSC loses ECNL boys. I think that is premature. ECNL has to do something to keep Celtic, FC Wichita , Comets, etc happy or they will take a GA offer. At the end of the day ECNL survives on memberships and they can't keep losing clubs. GA now has a larger membership than ECNL. Is the top end better quality? No. not yet. (Maybe never). MLS Next is causing havoc with all the Oklahoma ECNL/RL programs. Who is the next club to go MLS Next? (it's going to happen) Can Greenwood survive without girls to pay the bills? (That's for someone smarter than me) and Mohawk???? So many questions going into to next year. Then I think things settle down.
 

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I agree with most of this. I've heard WSA won't get 4-5 years. (They need to show improvement in 2 which they very well could). I'm a big fan of Roger (not of some of his staff). Energy doesn't have a travel partner without WSA, Celtic or FC Wichita. Everyone say's (You included I think) that TSC loses ECNL boys. I think that is premature. ECNL has to do something to keep Celtic, FC Wichita , Comets, etc happy or they will take a GA offer. At the end of the day ECNL survives on memberships and they can't keep losing clubs. GA now has a larger membership than ECNL. Is the top end better quality? No. not yet. (Maybe never). MLS Next is causing havoc with all the Oklahoma ECNL/RL programs. Who is the next club to go MLS Next? (it's going to happen) Can Greenwood survive without girls to pay the bills? (That's for someone smarter than me) and Mohawk???? So many questions going into to next year. Then I think things settle down.
My Dallas ECNL people tell me WSA will be given a chance to develop girls through their academy. Their 14s, 15s and 16s will make or break them. Those same Dallas people told me a year before ECNL dropped TSC that the move was decided. They have been pretty spot on regarding info.

I don’t believe ECNL care about numbers near as much as their care about quality. ECNL has 44 of the top 50 teams for 2012s and up. They also have more than double the number of D1 signings than the next closest platform. I don’t see how picking up clubs like Dallas Surf makes GA stronger rather than dilutes the level of play in its top division. Same with Celtic, Wichita, Comets, etc… Those clubs aren’t ECNL NL quality and ECNL won’t offer NL spots to entice clubs like that to stay as it lessens their brand Now if and when GA starts picking off top 20 clubs I will acknowledge there’s a problem. I will say partnering with MLS Next could pose an issue for ECNL if top clubs start moving. Haven’t seen it yet though.

Can Greenwood pay the bills without a large girls program. Historically that will be challenging based on what I know about club finances. I admittedly know nothing about MLS Next and how their fee structure works.

FCD played the top GA club from Texas a few weeks ago in Fort Worth. The results were similar to our games against WSA. Now if GA would snag one of the top Texas ECNL clubs the soccer world would definitely stand up and take notice. I was very surprised two years ago when the top Texas GA club at that time (Lonestar) agreed to move to ECNL for an RL slot. That move still makes zero sense to me. Wouldn’t surprised me to see them move back.
 

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Yes that 2013 RL team will be 2014 NL next year (assuming things stay the same, I really like Waylon). WSA has to not only solve the 13's NL issue (which was 0-28 this weekend) but they will have to form a 2013 RL team and RL Frontier. Several 2013's can drop with age change but only a couple of 2012's can drop (from my info). WSA was 6 goals for and 60 against this weekend in NL. I've heard Dallas teams are unhappy about having to come play here. That's not just a WSA issue, Texas doesn't think they need Oklahoma and Colorado. (That includes Energy). Will there be a ECNL Frontier next year? Will that be better than GA? Will Greenwood make a splash in girls? Just sit back with your popcorn and enjoy the next 10 months......... Oh and WSA plays in Denver the last weekend of Jan. (who @ ECNL thinks that's a good idea???) I could see a lot of kids sick and injured for that trip.
I would have been unhappy if I were a Sting player/coach or FC Dallas player/coach and coming and having to play at either River Parks or West Bank. As a ref I specifically go through and review all the rules of competition for whatever level I am refereeing that weekend just to make sure I am up to date on half lengths, sub procedures, whether or not I need to record goal scorers and assists, etc. When going through the ECNL stuff, it is clearly laid out that hosts shall provide "PREMIUM" playing fields, team benches, canopies for hot days, and ECNL signage, as well as on site bathrooms or port-a-johns. Fields may be grass or turf. Outside of field 10 at River Parks, no other field WSA is even close to being considered a "premium" field. Fields 2 and 6 at River Parks are not terrible but the grass is uneven and there are pot marks all over the place. Hell, the kick off spot on field 2 was painted over a dirt mark which looked like an old gopher hole that had to be filled in. And let's not get started on West Bank. One of my non-called "handballs" (at least according to the Sting coaches), was due to a rough patch in the grass that caused the ball to bounce up off the WSA player's shin into her hand by her side (by the way, went back and reviewed the IFAB practical advice for referees and this is, and I quote, "Never a handball"). Someone had said they had "redone" West Bank. Fields look exactly the same as last season when I ref'd the WSA Cup out there. As I said, if I were Sting and FC Dallas, I'd be upset too. Heck, at this point, Mohawk would have been a better option for them to host ECNL games at but I know they don't want to pay for a complex for those games.

So is Waylon, the shorter balding dude? He mentioned to me on Saturday that a good number of his girls would be categorized into the same age group after the age group shift meaning there are a lot of back half of the year 2014s. He got on me Saturday about the disparity in foul calls against his team vs the FC Dallas team. After the game my son, who had heard the comment, said to me if you're defending 80% of the game and don't have the ball in possession a lot, your team is going to have more foul calls. I never even thought about that. And a referee mentor told me when I first started mentioned to me you have to referee girls' games and boys' games a little differently. He said girls hate the clutching and grabbing and boys hate their ankles and shins being hacked at. And that is so true. I will frequently have to tell a female player to calm down after she yells at her opponent because there's a lot of upper body contact and clutching going on (nothing rising to an actual foul). Had one this weekend in the RL game on Sunday. Deep throw in. WSA player is bodying up to the back of the Sting player. Ball comes in, Sting player is basically trying to shove her way with her back into the area and the WSA player finally just steps back away from her and the Sting player tumbles down. She gets up "Ref, get her off my back! Where's the foul?" WSA player never grabbed her and simply stepped away from her and the girl was so off balance she fell. No foul at all.

The funny thing is you can tell referees who also do a lot of adult league games as they tend to let a lot go. The guy who did the first game for the NL on Sunday, he let a lot of the clutching and grabbing go. I tend to not, especially when it's coming from slightly behind.

There's my TedTalk. If anyone has any specific questions about specific laws and why things do or don't get called...I'm here all week :ROFLMAO:
 

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I have heard EXACTLY the opposite about OKC. The fields have been much worse, and the officiating was worse. They seemed unprepared, etc I have some friends who will go on WILD rants about Energy. They are on the boys' side, so I'm not sure if that makes a difference. I know some on the chica's side too.

If the West Bank is roughly the same, my god. Those fields are as bad as anything I have seen. I mean, truly, truly, truly dog dook. Did I mention dog dook? It is really hard to fathom that they would put them out there. Hopefully, they find a high school to play their games. Yeesh.

It wasn't until I went to Greenwood's little tournament deal back at the beginning of August that I realised just how junk Mohawk was. They hadn't even mowed the fields, and they were so bumpy. It is sad because that place has such potential. If I were WSA, I would pay $500 to relocate my trailers to Mohawk and establish a camp there to develop that space. Apparently, NEOFC and Greenwood are having little tiffs are whose time is whose on those fields.

I'm shocked they had grandiose plans to develop the West Bank into turf fields. At some point, people should think about what is available around them. Basically, it is nothing, nada. If you are going to do that, do it in Sand Springs. There is actually stuff there. You want the people to go spend money in the restaurants and stay in the hotels, too. That means tax dollars and spending money with the people who paid for your facilities. Seems pretty basic to me, or maybe that is second-order brain power.

Right now, the two best facilities in Tulsa are Jenks and Indian Springs. I prefer Jenks because it is 3 minutes from my house. :), I think the grass fields are better in Jenks IMO, and the breakfast burrito is on freakin point there. The snow cones are a big crowd pleaser, too. Jenks is actually connected to Tulsa, too. There is zero separation at this point. Tulsa Hills, Jenks downtown, the mall and riverside are all right there. BASC is a well-known POA to get to. At least there are a few more things around there compared to when I used to play there. It is still not connected to this town. BA don't think of themselves as Tulsa people. They like their 6,000-person high school.
 
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I have heard EXACTLY the opposite about OKC. The fields have been much worse, and the officiating was worse. They seemed unprepared, etc I have some friends who will go on WILD rants about Energy. They are on the boys' side, so I'm not sure if that makes a difference. I know some on the chica's side too.

If the West Bank is roughly the same, my god. Those fields are as bad as anything I have seen. I mean, truly, truly, truly dog dook. Did I mention dog dook? It is really hard to fathom that they would put them out there. Hopefully, they find a high school to play their games. Yeesh.

It wasn't until I went to Greenwood's little tournament deal back at the beginning of August that I realised just how junk Mohawk was. They hadn't even mowed the fields, and they were so bumpy. It is sad because that place has such potential. If I were WSA, I would pay $500 to relocate my trailers to Mohawk and establish a camp there to develop that space. Apparently, NEOFC and Greenwood are having little tiffs are whose time is whose on those fields.

I'm shocked they had grandiose plans to develop the West Bank into turf fields. At some point, people should think about what is available around them. Basically, it is nothing, nada. If you are going to do that, do it in Sand Springs. There is actually stuff there. You want the people to go spend money in the restaurants and stay in the hotels, too. That means tax dollars and spending money with the people who paid for your facilities. Seems pretty basic to me, or maybe that is second-order brain power.

Right now, the two best facilities in Tulsa are Jenks and Indian Springs. I prefer Jenks because it is 3 minutes from my house. :), I think the grass fields are better in Jenks IMO, and the breakfast burrito is on freakin point there. The snow cones are a big crowd pleaser, too. Jenks is actually connected to Tulsa, too. There is zero separation at this point. Tulsa Hills, Jenks downtown, the mall and riverside are all right there. BASC is a well-known POA to get to. At least there are a few more things around there compared to when I used to play there. It is still not connected to this town. BA don't think of themselves as Tulsa people. They like their 6,000-person high school.

I agree with the fields stuff everyone is saying. The only thing from TSC I miss is Scheels, tbh. I thought our games would be played at Holland Hall or even Jenks HS / training or SOMETHING like that.
 
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I have heard EXACTLY the opposite about OKC. The fields have been much worse, and the officiating was worse. They seemed unprepared, etc I have some friends who will go on WILD rants about Energy. They are on the boys' side, so I'm not sure if that makes a difference. I know some on the chica's side too.

If the West Bank is roughly the same, my god. Those fields are as bad as anything I have seen. I mean, truly, truly, truly dog dook. Did I mention dog dook? It is really hard to fathom that they would put them out there. Hopefully, they find a high school to play their games. Yeesh.

It wasn't until I went to Greenwood's little tournament deal back at the beginning of August that I realised just how junk Mohawk was. They hadn't even mowed the fields, and they were so bumpy. It is sad because that place has such potential. If I were WSA, I would pay $500 to relocate my trailers to Mohawk and establish a camp there to develop that space. Apparently, NEOFC and Greenwood are having little tiffs are whose time is whose on those fields.

I'm shocked they had grandiose plans to develop the West Bank into turf fields. At some point, people should think about what is available around them. Basically, it is nothing, nada. If you are going to do that, do it in Sand Springs. There is actually stuff there. You want the people to go spend money in the restaurants and stay in the hotels, too. That means tax dollars and spending money with the people who paid for your facilities. Seems pretty basic to me, or maybe that is second-order brain power.

Right now, the two best facilities in Tulsa are Jenks and Indian Springs. I prefer Jenks because it is 3 minutes from my house. :), I think the grass fields are better in Jenks IMO, and the breakfast burrito is on freakin point there. The snow cones are a big crowd pleaser, too. Jenks is actually connected to Tulsa, too. There is zero separation at this point. Tulsa Hills, Jenks downtown, the mall and riverside are all right there. BASC is a well-known POA to get to. At least there are a few more things around there compared to when I used to play there. It is still not connected to this town. BA don't think of themselves as Tulsa people. They like their 6,000-person high school.
Depends on where they were playing in OKC. Energy plays games at Edmond Soccer Complex on Danforth. The facility itself is pretty nice with nice restrooms and support facilities (and a nice ref room). The fields are spotty at best but not the worst. The fields just north of Lake Hefner where NOKC calls home have all been redone and are decent. Problem there is the wind and the terraced fields...once the ball leaves a field the ball basically rolls a country mile away. It's a decent facility.

I've always thought the Celtic facility, especially after they redid a lot of the 11v11 fields, are some of the best in the state. It has been a few years since I've been there. Biggest problem there was always the restroom facilities and concessions building. It was pretty awful. Parking there is also not the greatest where big events usually have to use the farm field to the west.

South Lakes is a decent facility but probably on the same level with the Edmond complex. Some of the fields are missing grass and many of them are slightly tilted towards the east. The best fields there are the ones furthest south which are a hike from the parking lot area.

Broken Arrow is very protective of the fields there. Teams who are allowed to practice on the grass fields aren't allowed to use the goal areas. Teams can't even warm up in the box before games, so no shooting drills. They also set the price for using the turf fields exceptionally high to discourage not consistent use. It is one of the best facilities in terms of field conditions, restroom facilities, parking, etc. Yes, it's a PIA to get in and out on big tournament weekends especially now that they've gated off the east exit by the baseball fields to prevent people from going through the neighborhood out to 131st. And yes, whoever hosts their tournaments out there always gets great food trucks out there as well as the guy who won the bid for concessions does a great job with his family running it. The ref room is OK out there. Matter of fact, none of the Tulsa area facilities have great ref areas. They're all too small and they're too close to the action. You'd be amazed at the number of parents and coaches who feel like they've been invited to come into the ref area to complain. Some assignors are like you all can leave now, this is not the time or place to complain about referees, and some welcome that. Heck Eric from TSC feels it is a right of his to come in and ***** about referees on TSC games during a tournament. If he keeps doing it TSc will struggle to get refs and usually referees come from all over the region to do that tournament because they like Reza and Bret Dobie and usually the quality of play is high.
 

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Yes that 2013 RL team will be 2014 NL next year (assuming things stay the same, I really like Waylon). WSA has to not only solve the 13's NL issue (which was 0-28 this weekend) but they will have to form a 2013 RL team and RL Frontier. Several 2013's can drop with age change but only a couple of 2012's can drop (from my info). WSA was 6 goals for and 60 against this weekend in NL. I've heard Dallas teams are unhappy about having to come play here. That's not just a WSA issue, Texas doesn't think they need Oklahoma and Colorado. (That includes Energy). Will there be a ECNL Frontier next year? Will that be better than GA? Will Greenwood make a splash in girls? Just sit back with your popcorn and enjoy the next 10 months......... Oh and WSA plays in Denver the last weekend of Jan. (who @ ECNL thinks that's a good idea???) I could see a lot of kids sick and injured for that trip.

I could see TX becoming their entire own thing and NL making a Frontier conf.
I've been told that the Frontier Conf RL team has some good teams in it. I haven't seen any of those teams personally, though.
 

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It wasn't until I went to Greenwood's little tournament deal back at the beginning of August that I realised just how junk Mohawk was. They hadn't even mowed the fields, and they were so bumpy.
So the bumpiness is due to the fact that the NPL regionals were played there in June when we had about 10 inches of rain in 3 days. They went ahead and played anyway. It was easily the worst field conditions I've even seen and honestly they weren't safe to be playing the games on them. They got chewed up so bad. And we haven't had enough rain since them to get them evened out again. And the City of Tulsa doesn't care about the fields unless they stop being a money maker and the clubs and other tournament orgs keep going back so they won't do anything to improve anything out there.
 

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Depends on where they were playing in OKC. Energy plays games at Edmond Soccer Complex on Danforth. The facility itself is pretty nice with nice restrooms and support facilities (and a nice ref room). The fields are spotty at best but not the worst. The fields just north of Lake Hefner where NOKC calls home have all been redone and are decent. Problem there is the wind and the terraced fields...once the ball leaves a field the ball basically rolls a country mile away. It's a decent facility.

I've always thought the Celtic facility, especially after they redid a lot of the 11v11 fields, are some of the best in the state. It has been a few years since I've been there. Biggest problem there was always the restroom facilities and concessions building. It was pretty awful. Parking there is also not the greatest where big events usually have to use the farm field to the west.

South Lakes is a decent facility but probably on the same level with the Edmond complex. Some of the fields are missing grass and many of them are slightly tilted towards the east. The best fields there are the ones furthest south which are a hike from the parking lot area.

Broken Arrow is very protective of the fields there. Teams who are allowed to practice on the grass fields aren't allowed to use the goal areas. Teams can't even warm up in the box before games, so no shooting drills. They also set the price for using the turf fields exceptionally high to discourage not consistent use. It is one of the best facilities in terms of field conditions, restroom facilities, parking, etc. Yes, it's a PIA to get in and out on big tournament weekends especially now that they've gated off the east exit by the baseball fields to prevent people from going through the neighborhood out to 131st. And yes, whoever hosts their tournaments out there always gets great food trucks out there as well as the guy who won the bid for concessions does a great job with his family running it. The ref room is OK out there. Matter of fact, none of the Tulsa area facilities have great ref areas. They're all too small and they're too close to the action. You'd be amazed at the number of parents and coaches who feel like they've been invited to come into the ref area to complain. Some assignors are like you all can leave now, this is not the time or place to complain about referees, and some welcome that. Heck Eric from TSC feels it is a right of his to come in and ***** about referees on TSC games during a tournament. If he keeps doing it TSc will struggle to get refs and usually referees come from all over the region to do that tournament because they like Reza and Bret Dobie and usually the quality of play is high.
The new fields and restrooms at NOKC at really nice. Built in covered benches for the players/coaches and the fields are very good. The grass resembles many of the Dallas area complexes. Definitely an ECNL quality complex imo.

WSA fields are basically Mohawk with worse parking. Disappointed with the quality. That said…as a father of a teenage girl, I would still rather play there than on turf due to injury concerns.
 
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The new fields and restrooms at NOKC at really nice. Built in covered benches for the players/coaches and the fields are very good. The grass resembles many of the Dallas area complexes. Definitely an ECNL quality complex imo.

WSA fields are basically Mohawk with worse parking. Disappointed with the quality. That said…as a father of a teenage girl, I would still rather play there than on turf due to injury concerns.
No offense to Scheel's or any of the HS complexes or BA with their turf fields, I understand why complexes are putting turf in...it's so you don't miss out on weeks in the Spring where you don't have playable fields because of the rain. But I am with you...grass is always a better surface to play on and as a ref, I prefer grass as well...my knees are 20 years older than I am and while I like the evenness of the turf surface, it's still hard on my cracker knees and I'm not making sudden cuts or running full speed and bumping/grinding to win a ball.

We need a nice investor to come along and build a complex with the tif Bermuda golf course quality grass along with a sub air system under the fields (TPC Sawgrass has a sub air system under their greens that basically acts like a giant vacuum and sucks the water out of them when it gets to be too much...it's why they stay firm and fast a day after a monsoon rain...and yes I know this from experience). I don't know of any full field systems like this but it could be state of the art.
 

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No offense to Scheel's or any of the HS complexes or BA with their turf fields, I understand why complexes are putting turf in...it's so you don't miss out on weeks in the Spring where you don't have playable fields because of the rain. But I am with you...grass is always a better surface to play on and as a ref, I prefer grass as well...my knees are 20 years older than I am and while I like the evenness of the turf surface, it's still hard on my cracker knees and I'm not making sudden cuts or running full speed and bumping/grinding to win a ball.

We need a nice investor to come along and build a complex with the tif Bermuda golf course quality grass along with a sub air system under the fields (TPC Sawgrass has a sub air system under their greens that basically acts like a giant vacuum and sucks the water out of them when it gets to be too much...it's why they stay firm and fast a day after a monsoon rain...and yes I know this from experience). I don't know of any full field systems like this but it could be state of the art.
If I were building a first class grass facility, I would send my head groundskeeper down to FC Dallas and learn everything there is to know about how they built and care for those fields at Toyota.
 
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If I were building a first class grass facility, I would send my head groundskeeper down to FC Dallas and learn everything there is to know about how they built and care for those fields at Toyota.
100% agree. That is a 100% world class facility. I think TU's primary pitch is on par with that facility in terms of pitch quality.

Crazy thing is there are several complexes around Dallas that put most anything we have around Tulsa to shame. Moneygram, Russell Creek Park in Plano, the Railyard complex (I don't know the actual name but it was an old railyard and they have train cars interspersed through out the complex) all are premium quality. There's a facility in Ft. Worth between a prison and a community college that is nice but not close to the level of those others, yet it's still better than most of the Tulsa complexes (minus the razor wire).
 

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So is Waylon, the shorter balding dude? He mentioned to me on Saturday that a good number of his girls would be categorized into the same age group after the age group shift meaning there are a lot of back half of the year 2014s.

that description doesn’t fit Waylon so I’m not sure who that was. But there are three girls that will qualify as 15s after age change and we have two more ‘natural’ 15s on the team that play up with us. I’m not sure how the club will handle things but at this point I assume most clubs will look at a case by case basis. Anyone seeing club policy being set yet on age change implementation elsewhere?
 

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that description doesn’t fit Waylon so I’m not sure who that was. But there are three girls that will qualify as 15s after age change and we have two more ‘natural’ 15s on the team that play up with us. I’m not sure how the club will handle things but at this point I assume most clubs will look at a case by case basis. Anyone seeing club policy being set yet on age change implementation elsewhere?
Clubs will focus on grouping players together by graduating class….and they should
 
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I, for one, have never been a fan of moving a kid up an age group. I understand the talent level and challenging them to grow against better players, but in the final year when the rest of their group has moved on, you're all of a sudden dropping them in with kids they've never played with and probably expecting them to be a team leader.

I feel the same way about co-ed teams which almost always end up being 1 or 2 girls who might be the best players in the group U12 and under but once everyone hits puberty and you're still running girls out there with the boys, it usually doesn't go well.

The last time they changed the age groups to birth year, it separated my son and his best friend. On the calendar, their birthdays are 32 days apart, it just happened to straddle the new year. He was asked if he wanted to play with the 2005s or stay with the 2006s and my son chose the 2006s, mostly because he could keep his coach and it probably worked out for the best. Those late 2005s ended up losing a year of 9v9 soccer and getting thrust into the 11v11 during that change. It was rough.

One more question to those of you connected with the clubs...is Cyprian Hedrick still coaching locally and is his daughter still playing? I swear there was a guy who looked just like him on the FC Dallas parents u13 side last weekend and there was a girl with his last name on their U13 NL squad. Don't know if it was a coincidence or not.
 

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I, for one, have never been a fan of moving a kid up an age group. I understand the talent level and challenging them to grow against better players, but in the final year when the rest of their group has moved on, you're all of a sudden dropping them in with kids they've never played with and probably expecting them to be a team leader.

I feel the same way about co-ed teams which almost always end up being 1 or 2 girls who might be the best players in the group U12 and under but once everyone hits puberty and you're still running girls out there with the boys, it usually doesn't go well.

The last time they changed the age groups to birth year, it separated my son and his best friend. On the calendar, their birthdays are 32 days apart, it just happened to straddle the new year. He was asked if he wanted to play with the 2005s or stay with the 2006s and my son chose the 2006s, mostly because he could keep his coach and it probably worked out for the best. Those late 2005s ended up losing a year of 9v9 soccer and getting thrust into the 11v11 during that change. It was rough.

One more question to those of you connected with the clubs...is Cyprian Hedrick still coaching locally and is his daughter still playing? I swear there was a guy who looked just like him on the FC Dallas parents u13 side last weekend and there was a girl with his last name on their U13 NL squad. Don't know if it was a coincidence or not.
Cyp is coaching GA at TSC. His daughter is indeed playing at FC Dallas. She’s also playing on the 2013 GA team at TSC. She’s a very good player
 
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Cyp is coaching GA at TSC. His daughter is indeed playing at FC Dallas. She’s also playing on the 2013 GA team at TSC. She’s a very good player
She is really good. Fast and physical from what I can remember. Unless I have the wrong girl, I think she was playing outside back. Funny thing is that FC Dallas U13 NL side had a lot of size and were very physical. However, IMO, their best player was a left wing who was maybe the smallest player on the field Saturday. Her technical skill was really high level and she made the right runs at the right time and her ability to see the field was especially high for that age. #11. I was really impressed with her overall game.
 

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I, for one, have never been a fan of moving a kid up an age group. I understand the talent level and challenging them to grow against better players, but in the final year when the rest of their group has moved on, you're all of a sudden dropping them in with kids they've never played with and probably expecting them to be a team leader.

my daughter was moved up a year (barely as her birthday is January anyway) when she started playing bc her friends from school were 13s and she is a 14. We did it for social reasons we didn’t even know the concept of development in soccer at that point. I’m very glad we went that route looking backwards as it was helpful for her in many ways. Socially, developmentally, etc.

I’m sure if Tulsa could consolidate better we wouldn’t have as much age movement between levels but I’m grateful for the 15s that play up on our team right now and I’m not sure where you fill those holes if/when they move on age.

@lawpoke87 Assuming based on your comments that FCD will prioritize girls school age? If so that means our team will be playing the Tulsa-based FCD 13s when they ‘become 14s’ next year (assuming they stay at FCD and don’t get exceptions).
 
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Cyp is coaching GA at TSC. His daughter is indeed playing at FC Dallas. She’s also playing on the 2013 GA team at TSC. She’s a very good player

predictions on what this means for tulsa girls soccer long term? We have three TSC GA players DPing for Dallas ECNL teams. How does that affect future team decisions and recruiting?
 
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Yes…my understanding is that FCD will prioritize teams based on school year. There will always be exceptions of course but the general goal is to have teams composed of all freshmen, sophomores, juniors, etc..
 
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my daughter was moved up a year (barely as her birthday is January anyway) when she started playing bc her friends from school were 13s and she is a 14. We did it for social reasons we didn’t even know the concept of development in soccer at that point. I’m very glad we went that route looking backwards as it was helpful for her in many ways. Socially, developmentally, etc.

I’m sure if Tulsa could consolidate better we wouldn’t have as much age movement between levels but I’m grateful for the 15s that play up on our team right now and I’m not sure where you fill those holes if/when they move on age.

@lawpoke87 Assuming based on your comments that FCD will prioritize girls school age? If so that means our team will be playing the Tulsa-based FCD 13s when they ‘become 14s’ next year (assuming they stay at FCD and don’t get exceptions).
Sounds like your daughter is actually playing with the group she would be playing with if it were school year based (and will be next year).
 

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I, for one, have never been a fan of moving a kid up an age group. I understand the talent level and challenging them to grow against better players, but in the final year when the rest of their group has moved on, you're all of a sudden dropping them in with kids they've never played with and probably expecting them to be a team leader.

I feel the same way about co-ed teams which almost always end up being 1 or 2 girls who might be the best players in the group U12 and under but once everyone hits puberty and you're still running girls out there with the boys, it usually doesn't go well.

The last time they changed the age groups to birth year, it separated my son and his best friend. On the calendar, their birthdays are 32 days apart, it just happened to straddle the new year. He was asked if he wanted to play with the 2005s or stay with the 2006s and my son chose the 2006s, mostly because he could keep his coach and it probably worked out for the best. Those late 2005s ended up losing a year of 9v9 soccer and getting thrust into the 11v11 during that change. It was rough.

One more question to those of you connected with the clubs...is Cyprian Hedrick still coaching locally and is his daughter still playing? I swear there was a guy who looked just like him on the FC Dallas parents u13 side last weekend and there was a girl with his last name on their U13 NL squad. Don't know if it was a coincidence or not.

I've said it before: if we could get the 12's that are playing up to play with their age group and also bring "home" the few 12s that are going to OKC, we'd have a pretty good team. Even better than we have now.
 
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Hearing rumors out of Energy that the girls NL director has been let go. Was also the 11 and 06/07 coach.

Word on the street was it allegedly had something to do with pay to play or bribing coach to be on a team.

Curious if anyone else is hearing this or if it was pure fiction.
 
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