Yes, I am getting upset that a white person thinks they can educate a black person on racism, racial oppression, slavery and so forth. It is beyond ignorant. You have no experience with any of it. Your experience is delegated to reading and hearing. We all want to move past it. But you are going to have to admit a wrong with slavery, racism, oppression, segregation and their lasting impacts and work with us to fully move on.
Like financial? No! Neither do most any black people. How would that even be quantified or settle. We would literally be putting a price on human life and freedom or lack of.
No one is claiming whites had it easy or had great childhoods. You still were not segregated, targeted racially and treated like a lower class because of your skin tone. What do you not understand about that? Reminding you of it and pointing out it still exist is not fanning it.