My understanding:
Offer made with a window to accept after some initial hesitation from coaches due to how the first recruitment was handled
Offer accepted (hence why I posted what I did earlier) by the Bassetts
Acceptance was reneged and family wanted to go back to table
Offer was deemed final by coaches
All communication ceased
Your last statement is as accurate as can be
I have no reason to doubt your summary, and assuming it's accurate:
PSU was more than accommodating, and given the history and progression, they handled it perfectly IMO.
Sometimes you need to be careful what you wish for. There is more than a pattern developing here, and I suspect 4-5 years of more of the same drama, uncertainty, or 'me first', would wear quite thin on everyone involved.
It takes more than talent to be a good fit, just ask Nick, and I for one didn't want to experience that soap opera again as a fan. To be honest I am still so disappointed and regretful that we won't see Zach Ryder's career play out here.
Above all Cael wants kids who want to be here, and who can argue with that? It's unclear if Bo really wants to be anywhere that badly, with one foot in and one foot out of a number of programs. Fickle or avoidant come to mind - look it up!