Sleeh hit it perfectly. Per what many consider the best coach in NC as told to me twenty plus years ago, "to be the best you need a principal that supports the football program."
OC Davis great job sir. I tip my hat to you and your children.
Thank you btango.
I was fortunate to play for Coach Cushwa and for Coach Brown at a time when coaches were allowed to manage their programs. Playing time was determined by not only skill, but the amount of effort given. The community understood that playing sports was a privilege, not a right. Good conduct and academic effort were conditions of participating, not merely suggestions. The principal, superintendent, school board and the community supported athletics if it was done with integrity.
Integration came to Thomasville when I was in the seventh grade. We had a racially diverse school and team with very few issues. The one time a black player and a white player got into it, Coach Cushwa made them kiss on the mouth. Needless to say, we got the message that on the football field we were all the same. Coach hoped that would transfer to every aspect of our lives.
I truly believe that in most places, where there is decline in athletics, it's because our societal issues have invaded the one place that should bring us together. In some cases, lack of parenting, lack of support for public schools, disregard for discipline, a sense of entitlement, pay for play, helicopter parents....all have a role. Certainly, economic circumstances can affect sports as well.
We can throw up our hands and give up, or look in the mirror. If our communities see sports as a means to an end, we can shift the paradigm. Academic training without character education, is pretty empty. Sports can be one of our greatest teaching tools.
Okay, enough of the soapbox. But I believe every word of it because two coaches, along with my parents, cared enough about me to teach it to me.