Why is this part so hard to grasp by some in the thread?
Well let's see. You're supposed to go to college for an education. And let's be pretty clear there's not very many NJ kids applying to UF or UGA. UNC, UVA, Duke and Vandy (and I guess Stanford and Cal now) are academically elite institutions. Interestingly, in these threads, those names never surface...what a mystery....
So putting those aside...at least at the undergrad level, RU pretty much is as good...and in mostly cases SIGNIFICANTLY superior academically (vs NJ parent favorites like Clemson or Bama in particular).
Then there is the cost aspect. Boy it sure is funny to hear how middle class families should send their kids to community college from people who think a degree from Clemson is worth more than one from Rutgers. I guess the money judgments don't go both ways?
And to top the cherry on the cake...that middle class or poor kid should schlep to Brookdale or whatever for 2 years, but the rich kid should value a pretty campus for 4? I mean probably 5 or 6, but same point.
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I think a lot of people make a lot of comments and then don't like the spotlight shone back on theirs. Too bad.
Personally my kid will be told...your choices are....Ivies/truly elite institutions or RU. You get a scholarship that makes the cost the same elsewhere, sure. If they didn't get into RU, after I was done bawling, I'd work it out, but it would be to next best ACADEMIC institution. Maybe that's Rowan. Maybe it's TCNJ. Or maybe it is somewhere OOS. But that is something different.
The idea I'd spend more money because of weather or a fancy facility is pretty hilarious. Even if I were a billionaire I know how much a dollar is worth and that's a lesson everyone should want to impart to their children. Then the same people whining cry crocodile tears because some other parent pays their kid's rent in Hoboken. Precious.
If people need to spend money to show off, there are surely better options. Send your kid to RU and buy a condo in New Brunswick or get them a nice car. A private, ELITE grad school (not Clemson. But Bama has a pretty good law school!)