The realtor should tell the buyer, and the lawyer should go over the covenants and restrictions at closing, but I haven't seen one that does. Bottom line is ... the buyer is going to sign a form saying they will abide by the rules of the HOA. If they don't, they'll get fined. The responsibility is ultimately on the buyer to find those things out because he's agreeing to them by his signature. And yes, they can be a nightmare if you try to deny that you've seen them and agree to them. A signature says otherwise.
Generally the restrictions and bylaws are for the good of everyone in the neighborhood. If a person doesn't want that, then they should buy elsewhere, not gripe about it once they move in.
Generally the restrictions and bylaws are for the good of everyone in the neighborhood. If a person doesn't want that, then they should buy elsewhere, not gripe about it once they move in.