Had a Passat. Loved everything about the car. All the extras and the way it drove. However, it had a transmission issue that no one seemed to be able to fix. Had a couple of guys work on it but changed the plugs, plug wires, etc. Spent hundreds but never found the fix. It was not an isolated instance (after looking online) and it definitely soured my taste. Great car other than that.
Also, totaled the same car and walked away without a scratch. That thing is built like a tank (which is a good vote for you with the daughter). My final vote is this. If I lived in a city where I had access to a VW dealer, I would definitely put my kid in that car.